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<table border="0" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1" width="100%" class="forumline"> <tr> <th class="thCornerL" width="22%" height="26">Autor</th> <th class="thCornerR">Wiadomość</th> </tr> <tr> <td width="22%" align="left" valign="top" class="row1"><span class="name"><a name=""></a><b>s1ub4k543</b></span></td> <td class="row1" height="28" valign="top"><table width="100%" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0"> <tr> <td width="100%"><img src="http://picsrv.fora.pl/subSilver/images/icon_minipost.gif" width="12" height="9" alt="Post" title="Post" border="0" /><span class="postdetails">Wysłany: Wto 8:01, 04 Sty 2011<span class="gen"> </span> Temat postu: even your partner</span></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><hr /></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><span class="postbody">Joining is a way of bonding with another person in a way that brings us incredibly close on both emotional and spiritual levels and provides a safe and natural way of healing. 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You can gently hold hands if you like. Now make eye contact with the other person and try to maintain it for as long as you can. You can blink as normal – the intention is not to stare, but to naturally look into the other person’s eyes for an extended period of time. Try to Join for at least twenty minutes. You may find it easier to focus on just one eye – whichever is most comfortable and gives you the deepest contact.At first, most people find it hard to maintain sustained eye contact. In social settings making too much eye contact can appear threatening, but here we are deliberately allowing ourselves to maintain the contact as long as we wish. You may feel embarrassed or awkward or you may find it hard to remain serious and have a strong urge to talk. It is possible that you feel disturbed by this level of intimacy and want to end the Joining.The resistance you may be feeling comes from the fear of emotional intimacy. 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You may cry – don’t judge this, just let it happen without resistance. Keep feeling into these emotions as you maintain the eye contact. It is likely that you and your partner will mirror each other’s emotions. Look into their eyes and imagine that you are seeing right into their emotions. What are they feeling? Feel love and appreciation for the other person and pour this into them. If you find this hard, imagine they are somebody you love dearly,<a href="http://www.ugg-winters.com/womens-ugg-tall-baroque-5852-womens-ugg-sand-tall-baroque-boots-p-91.html" target="_blank" class="postlink">Women's UGG Sand Tall Baroque Boots</a>, such as a child or a parent. As you feel the love for them and transfer it to your Joining partner through their eyes, they will feel it and respond. See all the love within them. If you have a spiritual belief, see divine love or God in their eyes. 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You may also become aware of the way in which some emotions are contained within specific parts of the body.The ‘emotional body’ has been described in the Eastern traditions of the Chakra system as well as other mind-body systems. We may notice pain or a constriction in certain parts of the body. For instance,<a href="http://www.ugg-winters.com/ugg-classic-cardy-boots-c-23.html" target="_blank" class="postlink">UGG Classic Cardy Boots</a>, during a Joining session we may start off feeling some emotional pain, as a knotted or cramped feeling in the intestinal area. As we continue the session and feel more love, those feelings ease and the emotions may appear to rise up through the body. Sometimes they might get stuck in the throat area. As our connection with our Joining partner strengthens, those feelings may then move up and appear to leave through the top of the head. 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